I personally find that self-love is the greatest reliever of stress that I have.  I would MUCH rather have a little kitty play than... take medication to make things more manegeable.

I for one do not use porn to get off... I am not really that "visual"  But ... there is pictures of a certain man that get me all kinds of riled up and I have used them for... encouragement.. so to speak.

I am more a person who has to have a mind fuck .. or be mentally there in order to get off .

When I was in a relationship said person would call me on the phone and talk low and would KNOW excactly how to put me in a subspace kind of mind for me to ... climax.

But now that is NO longer an option .. so I imagine... imagine myself in someone's arms ... or obeying their will. Finding myself longing for certain touches or voices I imagine those too.

The mind is a brilliant sex tool.

I use fingers to caress or  touch or tantalize...

I have been known to use toys... check my blog i am sure you will find ALL of my best friends.

Until I am in a monogamous relationship again.. this is where you will find me .. in my head space.... relieving stress  

Mmm. Delicious. And there's certainly nothing wrong with keeping your delightful kitty "in shape" and ready for the next relationship. Keep them endorphins flowing...

well that ...OR i will just keep practicing TIL perfect

Yes. Aim for perfection. Touch yourself while you imagine that I'm lightly tugging that hair pulled back behind your head. Softly - delicately run your fingers along your flesh...